The Survivor
Nov 5th 2007David ShaferHealthcare & Miscellaneous & Religion
Last Thursday night I attended a fundraising dinner for the Gwinnett Pregnancy Resource Center, a Southern Baptist ministry that helps women who have unexpectedly become pregnant. My friend Kathy Schraeder serves on the board of the ministry.
The featured speaker, Gianna Jessen, was described in the program as an “abortion survivor,” and I assumed we would be hearing from a woman who had an abortion that she now regretted. But I assumed wrongly. Our speaker was a former unborn baby who had survived her own abortion.
Thirty years ago, her mother underwent a “saline abortion,” a procedure in which a toxic saline solution is injected into the womb, causing the baby to die over a 24 hour period and then be stillborn. But in her case, eighteen hours into the procedure, she came roaring out of the womb, scalded by the saline, but very much alive.
In 1977, it was legal for the abortion doctor to suffocate a newborn baby who survived an abortion. Fortunately for Gianna, he was away from the clinic, not expecting her arrival for another six hours. The panicked nurse called an ambulance and she was taken to the hospital.
Two pounds in weight and badly burned by the saline, she was given almost no chance of surviving. But survive she did. She made it out of the hospital and into the loving arms of a foster family.
At eighteen months, she was given another obstacle. She was diagnosed with cerebral palsy, a result of her prenatal brain being deprived of oxygen during the abortion. Her doctors said she would likely never be able to hold up her head, sit up, crawl or walk.
But I watched her walk, with a slight limp, to the front of a hotel ballroom Thursday night. She sang three beautiful songs and told us a mesmerizing story of love, hope, perseverance and forgiveness.
Her foster mother, Penny, taught her to walk at age 3. Penny’s daughter adopted her, and Penny, her “queen,” became her grandmother. She has traveled the world, done indoor rock climbing and “run” marathons.
She is thankful that she has only had three surgeries for her cerebral palsy. Most suffering from cerebral palsy have had more.
In 2002, she met President Bush when he signed the Born-Alive Infant Protect Act, which extended legal protection to infants born alive after a failed abortion.
Her speech, obviously, was intended to make a point about abortion. Believe me, it did. Loud and clear. But her speech was not about abortion. It was about overcoming obstacles, persevering against adversity and finding the blessing in everything — good and bad — that comes our way.
I think about the setbacks, rejections and defeats that have frustrated, discouraged and at times demoralized me. Even the most painful losses — my Dad dying twelve years ago — pale in comparison to what Gianna Jessen has been asked to bear.
Gianna was hurt badly by a poor decision. She lives with it every day, not just the emotional hurt but the physical. But live with it she does. There is a lesson in her story for all of us.